Adoption is a life-changing decision—for the child, the birth parents, and the adoptive family. Whether you’re growing your family, formalizing a stepparent relationship, or adopting through an agency, the legal process must be followed carefully. At James L. Jordan Law, we guide families through every step of the North Carolina adoption process with compassion and clarity.
Here’s what you need to know about adoption in North Carolina.
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What Is Adoption?
Adoption is a legal process that creates a permanent parent-child relationship between individuals who are not biologically related. Once finalized, the adoptive parents assume all legal rights and responsibilities for the child, and the child gains the same legal status as a biological child.
North Carolina law governs adoption under Chapter 48 of the North Carolina General Statutes.
Who Can Adopt in North Carolina?
According to N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-1-103, the following individuals may adopt:
- Any adult may adopt a child
- A married couple may adopt jointly
- A stepparent may adopt their spouse’s child
- An individual may adopt an adult (age 18 or older) under certain conditions
There is no specific requirement regarding income level, home ownership, or marital status—though all adoptive parents must pass background checks and meet certain fitness criteria.
What Types of Adoption Are Available?
There are several types of adoption in North Carolina, each with its own procedures:
- Agency Adoption
- The child is placed through a licensed private or public adoption agency.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-3)
- The child is placed through a licensed private or public adoption agency.
- Independent/Direct Placement Adoption
- A birth parent places the child directly with the adoptive family, often with legal and agency assistance.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-3-201)
- A birth parent places the child directly with the adoptive family, often with legal and agency assistance.
- Stepparent Adoption
- A stepparent adopts the biological child of their spouse.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-4-101)
- A stepparent adopts the biological child of their spouse.
- Relative/Kinship Adoption
- A grandparent, sibling, aunt, uncle, or other relative adopts the child.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-4-101)
- A grandparent, sibling, aunt, uncle, or other relative adopts the child.
- Adult Adoption
- A person adopts another who is 18 or older.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-5-100)
- A person adopts another who is 18 or older.
What Is the Legal Process for Adoption?
The adoption process involves several key steps:
- Pre-Placement Assessment (Home Study)
- Required for most non-relative adoptions. Evaluates the home, background, and suitability of the adoptive parent(s).
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-3-303)
- Required for most non-relative adoptions. Evaluates the home, background, and suitability of the adoptive parent(s).
- Consent to Adoption
- The birth parents, legal guardian, or agency must consent before a child can be adopted.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-3-601) - In some cases, consent can be waived or parental rights terminated if abandonment, abuse, or unfitness is proven.
- The birth parents, legal guardian, or agency must consent before a child can be adopted.
- Placement of the Child
- Once consent is obtained and home study is approved, the child is placed with the adoptive family.
- Once consent is obtained and home study is approved, the child is placed with the adoptive family.
- Filing of Petition for Adoption
- The adoptive parent(s) file a legal petition in the county where they reside or where the child was born.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-2-302)
- The adoptive parent(s) file a legal petition in the county where they reside or where the child was born.
- Post-Placement Assessment
- Conducted after the child is placed in the home, this ensures the child is adjusting and the home is stable.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-2-501)
- Conducted after the child is placed in the home, this ensures the child is adjusting and the home is stable.
- Finalization Hearing
- If all legal requirements are met, the court will issue a final decree of adoption, completing the legal process.
- If all legal requirements are met, the court will issue a final decree of adoption, completing the legal process.
Do Birth Parents Have Rights After Adoption?
In most cases, adoption involves a complete termination of parental rights for the biological parents. However, North Carolina allows open adoption agreements, where adoptive and birth families voluntarily agree to maintain some level of contact. These agreements are not enforceable by law, but they can be honored based on mutual trust.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-3-702)
How Long Does the Adoption Process Take?
The timeline varies depending on the type of adoption and the specifics of the case. In general:
- Agency and direct placements may take 6 to 12 months
- Stepparent and relative adoptions may proceed more quickly
- Finalization must usually occur at least 90 days after placement
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-2-603)
Delays may occur if there are contested parental rights, out-of-state parties, or missing consents.
Can an Adoption Be Contested?
Yes, but only under certain circumstances. A biological parent or other interested party may attempt to contest an adoption if:
- Consent was obtained through fraud or duress
- Notice was not properly given to a legal guardian or birth father
- Parental rights were terminated improperly
However, once an adoption is finalized by the court, it is permanent and irrevocable, except in very rare and extreme cases.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 48-2-607)
Final Thoughts
Adoption is a powerful legal act of love and commitment. But it’s also a process that requires careful attention to the law. Whether you’re pursuing a private, agency, stepparent, or kinship adoption, understanding your rights and responsibilities is critical.
At James L. Jordan Law, we guide individuals and families through each step of the adoption process with experience, empathy, and clarity.
Considering adoption in North Carolina? Contact James L. Jordan Law today to schedule a private consultation.


